The Sanctuary Model is not just a technique; it is a clinical roadmap for creating a culture of recovery. Originally developed by Dr. Sandra Bloom, it is an evidence-based, trauma-informed organizational framework designed to move individuals and families from a state of “survival” to a state of “thriving.”
At Cedar Tree Counseling in Tulsa, OK, we don’t just “do” trauma therapy; we operate within the Sanctuary Model to ensure that every interaction—from the waiting room to the therapy office—is grounded in safety, emotional intelligence, and shared growth.
Moving Beyond “What is Wrong With You?”
The core shift of the Sanctuary Model is a move from the traditional medical question, “What is wrong with you?” to the trauma-informed question, “What happened to you?”
This shift recognizes that many of the behaviors we struggle with—anxiety, outbursts, or shut-down—were originally brilliant survival strategies developed in response to adversity. We help you understand your symptoms not as character flaws, but as adaptations that are no longer serving you in your current environment.
The Four Pillars of Healing: S.E.L.F.
To make the complex work of trauma recovery manageable, the Sanctuary Model utilizes the S.E.L.F. framework. This provides a non-linear map for processing trauma and building a new future.
| Pillar | Focus Area | The Goal |
| S – Safety | Physical, Emotional, Social, and Moral | Establishing a “baseline” where the nervous system can finally relax. You cannot heal what you do not feel safe enough to explore. |
| E – Emotion | Emotional Intelligence | Identifying and managing the “tsunamis” of feeling that trauma leaves behind. Learning to name it to tame it. |
| L – Loss | Grieving the Past | Acknowledging the “ghosts” of what was taken—safety, innocence, or time—so you can stop carrying the weight of the past. |
| F – Future | Goal Setting and Growth | Moving beyond the identity of a “victim” and into the identity of an “author,” creating a life based on choice rather than reaction. |